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How to Become an Active Listener to Your Children

Monday, November 06, 2023 | By: Phil Hyman Portraits

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Being an attentive listener is an important aspect of effective communication, especially when it comes to our children. Active listening involves not just hearing but also understanding your child’s emotions and feelings. It can help in building strong relationships and boosting their self-esteem. As parents, we can always improve our skills and start becoming active listeners today.

 

1. Pay full attention
Active listening requires paying full attention to your child’s conversation and nonverbal gestures. Put away your phone, turn off the TV, and maintain eye contact while they are talking to you. This sets the tone for a positive communication environment.

2. Paraphrase their thoughts
Repeat what your child says in your own words. This not only helps you understand their thoughts better but also shows your child that you are paying attention. This will give them the confidence to communicate with you freely. Always remember to validate their feelings and give importance to what they say.

3. Encourage open communication
Encourage your child to open up to you and tell you how they feel. Provide them with a safe space without any judgment or interruptions. Open communication can help you understand your child’s challenges and needs better. This can, in turn, help you provide them with appropriate solutions and support.

4. Maintain calmness
Active listening can be challenging, especially when your child is upset or angry. It is important to remain calm and composed in such situations. If you react with anger, it might discourage your child from opening up to you. Practice patience and let your child finish their thoughts before responding.

5. Follow-up with action
Active listening is not just about hearing your child out, but also about taking appropriate action. Try to implement solutions that are discussed during your conversation. This will build trust and confidence in your child, as they will see that their opinions and feelings matter.

 

Active listening to your child is an important skill that can improve communication and strengthen your relationship. Paying full attention, paraphrasing thoughts, encouraging open communication, maintaining calmness, and following up with action are some ways to become an active listener. By becoming an active listener, you can build your child’s self-esteem and help them navigate through life’s challenges. Try to incorporate these skills in your daily life, and you will notice a positive change in your relationship with your child.

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