1. Start a family legacy to pass on values to the next generation.
What is a family legacy, and how do we build that into our kids? I look back at my childhood, and my parents would always say things like, "put things where you found them!” or “if a job is worth doing, it's worth doing right!” and “you can't be honest with others until you are honest with yourself." Statements like that would drive me crazy, but I find myself saying things like that to my children. Both of my parents have passed away. What I value the most are those statements they told me as a kid and the things they taught me to appreciate. It’s their legacy that I’m now passing on to my kids. Legacy is what is in our hearts we pass from generation to generation. What are you passing on to your kids?
2. Teach your kids good habits, so they will grow up to be productive members of society.
A quick example: we have always told our kids, "your family is the most important thing on this earth." Our 13 year old now says that he wants to spend time with us by having game night, movie night, and other fun things we do together. We all have family traditions we are instilling into our children. It's up to us as parents to make sure they are the right traditions and values. What are some good habits you are instilling in your children?
3. Avoid some common mistakes that could threaten your family legacy as you pass it on.
I would say the BIGGEST mistake we can make in front of our children are family feuds and arguing within the four walls of your home. A lot I could say but let's keep it simple, don't talk about family rivalries in front of your kids, and certainly don't argue about family members in front of your kids. Family feuds will destroy YOUR legacy, and it will be baggage your children will quietly carry with them for the rest of your life.
Don't wait until it's too late to start a family legacy. Make sure your children know what their core values are, and practice them every day.
